In time, I am usually content to be "acquaintances with history," exchanging an email every once in a while or having friendly drinks with the exes that I still respect. Here are six rules for making that awkward transition from lovers to friends. Mourning period: Give each other time to mourn the death of the relationship.But that's only after time has passed and I've removed the rose-colored glasses that I used to gaze at him through. The longer you two were together, the longer it will probably take before you are ready for friendship.

I'M ON AN (IMPROMPTU) VACATION WITH MY BEST MALE FRIEND! On an island off the coast of the beautiful American Northeast.
A cottage fell into my lap on Monday night: A pregnant friend of mine rented the place with her husband and was driving up to spend a couple weeks here when she started feeling strange.
And, of course, there are the guys that I know I won't ever see or speak with ever again ... After three years of love, friendship, and co-habitation, my relationship with Jeff suddenly unraveled. It could be two months or two years -- feel it out.
those that have committed offenses of the heart too heinous to be forgiven in this lifetime. I called him up while he was on tour in Europe with his band. You'll know when the time is right because both of you will feel ready for it.
Or maybe that's not odd — maybe they could think through the situation and realize that, tiny momentary disappointment aside, a friendship might be a beneficial thing.)In another case, however, I was aggressively — and rather defensively — turned down for a friendship by a guy who said, "Since you're not attracted to me, I don't feel comfortable hanging out. As I was getting ready to skip town, however, I decided, what the hell, I'd drop him a line. And right away, he wrote back, saying, "I'd love to be friends! We're gonna hang out as soon as we're both back in New York.
If I didn't hear back, surely it would slide right off my back ... " He even went as far as saying he thought I was totally cool — and that he liked my writing. (He's about to head off on an international jaunt.)Lesson learned is: Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Writing in the journal Personality and Individual Differences, Mogilski and Welling explain: 'Men rated sexual access higher on importance than women did, which is consistent with other research showing that men are more likely than women to form [cross sex friendships] due to sexual attraction.'The authors wrote: 'Although a break-up nominally marks the end of a romantic relationship, the current research suggests that resource exchange between ex-partners can extend beyond relationship dissolution.
These features include large skulls, solid and defined jaws, angular noses and deep-set eyes.
2) Ex-couples are more likely to stay friends if the breakup was mutual.